By Lenore Skenazy

Read Time: 4 minutes

To Fight Anxiety, A School Unbuttons Recess and Boosts Independence

About a month ago, I visited the Strelitz Academy in Virginia Beach. Wow! Everyone in the elementary school is doing The Let Grow Experience, so there were paper trees in...
By Lenore Skenazy

Read Time: 4 minutes

THE 10 WORST LET GROW STORIES OF 2024 – AND 4 REASONS FOR GREAT HOPE!

It’s not the end of the year without an end-of-the-year reckoning, is it? Here is our list of the 10 worst Let Grow stories of 2024, and reasons for hope....
By Lenore Skenazy

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How Boring Playgrounds Stifle Play

I live in New York City. It’s green enough for me. But when I saw the work of Sharon Danks, CEO/founder of Green Schoolyards  America, it became obvious that most...
By Lenore Skenazy

Read Time: 5 minutes

LOSING TRACK OF YOUR KIDS SHOULD NOT BE A CRIME

Brittany Patterson had to take one of her four children to a medical appointment, and her youngest son, 10-year-old Soren, was going to come with them. This was a few...
By Lenore Skenazy

Read Time: 3 minutes

How to Fight the Obsessive Fear of Unlikely Dangers

Inside Out 2 gave kids a way to picture anxiety. For parents, all you need is this classic Modern Love column, “A Marriage Stressed by Obsessions and Compulsions.” In it,...
By Lenore Skenazy

Read Time: 4 minutes

HOW HELICOPTER PARENTING GOT MORE INTENSE

You can’t find a better explanation of the rise of helicopter parenting and how, when, and why that morphed into “intensive parenting” than this New York Times podcast from about...
By Lenore Skenazy

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The 3 Halloween Myths that Refuse to Die

A few years back, a parent on our Raising Independent Kids FB Group, wrote: I can't with the Halloween scare tactics. One local urgent care center is offering to x-ray...
By Lenore Skenazy

Read Time: 2 minutes

At Birch Wathen Lenox, The Kids are Waving Goodbye to their Comfort Zones

Take your pick: Covid. Phones. The culture of fear. The crazy world we live in. No matter what is to blame, something has been sapping kids of their can-do spirit....
By Lenore Skenazy

Read Time: 3 minutes

The Problem With Tracking Kids at College

A front-page article in The Wall Street Journal described the difficulty – even agony – some parents are feeling when their kids go off to college and are harder to...
By Lenore Skenazy

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A Headmaster Asks Parents (and Self) to Do Less

“What if the ways in which we are parenting are making life harder on our kids and harder on us? What if by doing less, parents would foster better outcomes for...
By Lenore Skenazy

Read Time: 3 minutes

Surgeon General Finds Parents Overwhelmed. We Have a Solution.

Surgeon General Vivek Murthy has issued an advisory announcing something most of us suspected: Parenting is hard. To ease the pain – parents are woefully lonely, and about half report...
By Lenore Skenazy

Read Time: 4 minutes

Child Protective Services: Close The Case on Kirstie Allsopp!

The big news in Britain is that TV personality Kirstie Allsopp let her 15-year-old go on a 3-week train trip around Europe with a friend, 16. Kirstie then published a...